Stories About Diligence - Character Development Series

When we want more, or when we lack it, then love hurts. Losing a relationship can be extremely painful. Relationship, or love, is so important that it is the thing couples fight about the most. This happens in every small thing. Like we are watching a show. My partner is saying, "Wait, I want to see what this is about" and I keep scrolling, ignoring his quote, that seed of conflict has been sown. Alternatively, when I ask if we can go sightseeing this weekend and my spouse either says yes, and does not follow through, or says “sightseeing!" You know I hate going out unnecessarily! Being aware of how we create communications to connect with each other and paying attention to whether we are following through. Because it has been a while. Alternatively, even "I would love to, but because of the craziness at work I'm not up to it. Can we find another way to spend time together, and we can do it another weekend? Can we plan to do something new? Alternatively...

Everyone sets goals to find happiness in their life. Do you sometimes feel unsure about making the right choice, which makes you even more unhappy? I admit that I often feel lonely. I'm someone who wants to spend quality time with others, but often feel that many relationships are superficial. Unfortunately we often look to others to fill that void rather than the person who matters most, because the one who matters most can fill the void There is no right or wrong thing to do in life and every experience in life has the potential to enrich us, or it can become a curse. He suggests that if we can walk through life happily, no matter what happens, we can live beautifully. How we can take our destiny into our own hands and make happiness our constant companion. There is often a lack of understanding or experience. Sometimes there are comparisons that drive us further apart. We rarely have compassion, empathy or sympathy for those whose paths are not like ours. Everyone is fr...

The desert is a testament to the power of resilience. Despite its harsh conditions, life manages to survive and thrive. It teaches us to be resilient in the face of adversity, recover from failures and keep moving forward. A desert is a vast area of dry, barren land. Deserts are either hot or cold environments with relatively little rainfall throughout the year. Deserts are characterized by a lack of vegetation and trees. Cactus-like plants and shrubs which are thorny and woody are found in deserts. An oasis appears to be a green island in the desert. Desert plants and animals can survive with little water. However, many other animals and plants cannot survive in deserts. The desert is an endless sandy scene, undulating dunes, sand all around. Even the sand blowing in the wind keeps blowing on your face. But despite such minor tortures, the desert is supernaturally beautiful, enchanting, mind-numbing, hypnotizing. Sunset and dawn cannot be described in words. It may seem like no...

It is a universal truth that change is the law of nature. After every night comes a day. Similar changes keep happening in our lives also. Some things change as per our wish and some things happen automatically without our efforts. Just as stagnant water gets filled with dirt and flowing water automatically remains clean and pure. Similar changes keep happening in human life also. Sometimes the scenery changes and sometimes the view of thinking changes. The change of scenery is not only refreshing; In some circumstances, this is the right choice. Different people see the same person in different ways. It is not certain that every Sunday is a holiday, it does not mean that every holiday will be followed by a Monday. Recognizing that, in terms of personal growth and development, we are not at the level we believe we should be. If we do not first change ourselves i.e. do not create a better self; So no matter where we go, who we meet, whatever new situation we find ourselves in, we...

In the month of January my family decided to buy a new house, as that house was small for my family, I was also very excited to get my new house. Specifically, I wanted a new bedroom so we went to the next societies in search of a new house; my family wanted a big hall and a room for their indoor activities. We searched a lot for a house. In our imagination; Our house should be very well lit. Maximum sunlight should be provided by skylights and tall windows. The place should be much bigger than our old house. We first looked at our needs and then looked at the budget. Is our household budget matching our needs? The next step was to add some modern touches, which we were very happy with. Our aim was to find a home that reflected its traditional values, but with a touch of modernity. We combined classic features like terracotta grills with more contemporary additions like box projections, glass extensions and glass staircases to find this beautiful, timeless property; Which we can...

Being prepared for periods of stress can make it easier to recover from them. In addition, knowing how to manage our well-being can help us recover after a stressful event. Some of us may refer to our ability to manage stress as our resilience. Try to take time to relax. It may seem difficult if you can't do anything to stop a situation that is causing you stress. However, if you can give yourself a short break, it may help with how you feel. Check out our pages on relaxation for some tips and exercises. Spending time doing things you enjoy can help distract you from a stressful situation. If stress is making you feel lonely or isolated, shared hobbies can also be a good way to meet new people. Spending time in nature can help reduce stress and improve health. You can try taking a walk in a green space, caring for indoor plants, or spending time with animals. There is more information on our nature and mental health pages. Taking care of your physical health is a big...

The state of anxiety or mental tension arising due to any difficult situation is called stress. Stress is a natural human response that motivates us to deal with challenges and threats in our lives. Every person experiences stress to some degree. Stress can occur when you have too many responsibilities and are struggling to manage them. If your family is going through a difficult time, such as bereavement or financial problems, if you belong to a religious group that faces discrimination. Sometimes, a little stress can help us accomplish tasks and feel more energetic. However, stress can become a problem when it lasts for a long time or is very intense. In some cases, stress can affect our physical and mental health. You may hear health care professionals refer to certain types of stress as 'acute' or 'chronic'. Acute stress occurs within minutes to hours of an event. It lasts for a short time, usually less than a few weeks, and is very intense. This may happen...

Success is not just a coincidence. This is the result of our perspective and we can choose our own perspective. Therefore, success is a matter of choice, not of chance. Most of the people keep waiting for a lottery to take place, but can they get success in it? You have to choose to work hard and you have to choose to be in the right place at the right time. You also have to be able to recognize what an opportunity looks like. Nothing happens by chance. Everything happens for a reason. Success is an opportunity and opportunity comes only to those who prepare themselves. Chance or luck is being prepared to see an opportunity. Our continuous efforts can make any impossible task possible. Just as a continuously flowing river cuts even a mountain. If you want to win, consider these thoughts. The eagerness to do something new always takes a person to his destination. Many types of obstacles come in the way of success due to which a person loses and changes his path. Those who maintain t...

Life is a long journey full of challenges and obstacles but to win you have to decide your own destination towards victory. It is not just full of difficulties, it is full of ups and downs of happiness and sadness. Our one step can make a big difference in this journey. Life is a long journey in which we experience the world around us, understand its complexities, learn from our mistakes, improve beyond recognition, grow authentically, help others live better lives. They do this, value the life around them and have great respect for moral worth. The journey of life is full of surprises, challenges, broken hearts, extreme ups and downs, celebrations, special moments and memories that define our experience as a human being. Therefore, we should think well before taking a step forward. It is these events, planned or unexpected, that shape our journeys and define our purpose. The act of traveling from one place to another, especially in a vehicle, I love going on long trips. I st...

Today there are many saints, but there is no sadhana. Sadhana without sadhana is like paper flowers. In which there is a lot of multicolored attraction, but there is a complete lack of fragrance. Such paper flowers are seen everywhere today. Because of this, the intensity and brightness of religion has dimmed. Religion is impossible in the absence of spiritual practice. The roots of religion are in spiritual practice. In the absence of spiritual practice, a saint's life can either be mere acting or oppression. Both these things are not auspicious. False expression of penance is hypocrisy, while mere repression is even more deadly. There is the torture of struggle in it, but there is no achievement in it. That which is suppressed does not die, but slides into deeper layers. On the one hand, a saint without sadhna is tormented by the pangs of lust; His life keeps burning in their flames; The fierce race of desire keeps giving him pain every moment; On the other hand, the flames...

When people are aimless and directionless, they cannot look up. If a person has a desire to get something, there should be a direction to reach it. If you have the determination to stick to the focus and the discipline required for hard work, then the rest becomes easy. But if you do not have these qualities then all your other qualities are useless. Character is the foundation on which the whole building stands. It is permanent. Lack of Courage Successful people don't look for miracles or easy ways. When our mind is filled with courage, we overcome our fears and difficulties along the way. Courage does not mean absence of fear, courage means overcoming fear. Character without courage is ineffective, while courage without character, justice and integrity is tyranny. What is the difference between trying hard and persevering? The difference is that persistence shows determination, while stubbornness shows willfulness and obstinacy. Life's struggles can be sad or pleas...

Accompanying my mother to the doctor was another way of helping her during her illness. I made sure that she never missed an appointment and that he always followed her medication regimen. I kept track of her medication schedule, making sure she took her medicines on time and in the right doses. I also made sure she had all the necessary medical supplies. Emotional support was vital during his illness. I spent time with her, listened to her concerns, and offered encouragement. I made sure she didn't feel alone during this time and she knew she had someone to rely on. I tried to keep her upbeat by watching her favorite TV shows, playing board games, and reading books. I also made sure he stayed positive and optimistic and encouraged him to focus on his recovery. Helping my mother during her illness was a challenging but rewarding experience. I helped her with household chores, accompanied her to doctor's visits, and provided emotional support. The experience taught me the im...

She was admitted to the Intensive Care Unit in Delhi. The doctor carefully examined her and studied the past case history. Then he advised for several tests and started the necessary treatment. She was very worried after coming away from her entire family. She was so scared that she asked, "Will you let me stay here alone, you go back home." Perhaps the most important way I helped my mother during her illness was by providing emotional support and encouragement. I knew my mother was feeling scared and uncertain about her health, and I wanted to be there for her as much as possible. I listened to her worries and fears, saying words of comfort and reassurance whenever she needed it. I also encouraged her to stay positive and optimistic, reminding her that she is strong and capable of overcoming any obstacle that comes her way. Helping my mother during her illness was a challenging but rewarding experience. This gave me an opportunity to show my mother how much she means ...

It was in the month of March 2011 when I fell ill. In those days I was very scared that something very bad is going to happen in my life. I was often in this thinking. I was staying there alone with some of my co-workers. They often laugh at me for being such a believer. Many of them did not even believe in God. They were surprised for a while when I fell ill; but when the doctor told about the disease,. I had a stone in my gall bladder. I was admitted to the hospital for further monitoring and medical tests. Due to severe pain in my abdomen, I was shifted to the acute surgical ward for necessary treatment. The drugs are injected through the nerves; Due to which I fainted and on the third day my eyes opened but I was unable to even sit on my bed. I could not move my arms and legs but there is little movement in my fingers. When the ward boy saw me; He called the doctor. After some time the doctor came to me and asked about my condition. I could not even speak a word. The doctor...

Intrinsic motivation is our inner satisfaction. Or the motivation is not for success or victory but for the inner fulfillment that comes from the feeling of having accomplished something. Motivation has more to do with a sense of fulfillment than with achieving a goal. Where it is necessary to identify the motivation, it is also necessary to keep it strong. Two things are very important in motivation, they are recognition and responsibility. Responsibility gives a person a sense of responsibility and belonging, in which a person starts thinking of himself as a part of a bigger work. Lack of responsibility makes a person unmotivated. The happiness obtained by paying the price does not last long. On the contrary, if someone is impressed by your words and acts on them, then you get emotional happiness. The feeling of doing a job in a right manner is a motivation in itself. Intrinsic motivation is doing an activity for its inherent satisfaction rather than for some separable resul...

The rainy season is of four months, hence it is also called Chaumasa or Chaturmas. As soon as the rainy season starts, animals like frog, peacock, papaya etc. start chirping happily. Trees and plants scorched by the heat get a new life. The leaves look healthy and green again. There is a seductive shade in the atmosphere everywhere. New plants and small animals start coming into existence, new buds start sprouting. Due to extreme heat, dry rivers and ponds get filled with water. The gloomy color of the mountains blossoms again. When the first shower of rain falls on the earth, then the sweet fragrance of the soil spreads in the atmosphere. With the arrival of the rainy season, there is immense happiness in the farmers and they start preparing to sow new crops in their fields. Green fodder is also easily available for animals. Some difficulties also increase when the rainy season comes. Due to filling of water in rivers and drains and accumulation of water on the roads, ther...

Seating in front of a lit fire in an autumn evening I was thinking of my past life. Thinking about our past lives is an interesting journey, but it can also be fraught with unintended consequences. The first relationships we make in life are with our families. A father's advice, a mother's warmth and a sibling's support are just what we need in the face of an impasse. The more the strings of relationships are pulled, the more the distance increases. I have started writing the story of my life. It has become a way for us to bond. My mom tells us stories about where and when my brothers and I were born and the things we loved. I have heard a lot about my life, but there is still a lot to be done. Even though I was away from home during the day, we used to get together before going to bed at night. So I am trying my best to connect with my family and write my life story. My mother was working long hours, so she could not spend much time at home. We were also working o...

Personality refers to the enduring characteristics and behavior that comprise a person's unique adjustment to life, including dominant traits, interests, drives, values, self-concept, abilities, and emotional patterns. Personality is a construct that encompasses interrelated behavioral, cognitive, and emotional patterns that are influenced by biological and environmental factors; these interrelated patterns are relatively stable across time periods, but they change throughout the lifespan. Explanations for personality can focus on a variety of influences, ranging from genetic influences to the role of environment and experience in shaping an individual's personality. Behavior usually has a recognizable order and regularity. Basically, people act in the same way or in similar ways in different situations. Personality is a psychological construct, but it is also influenced by biological processes and needs. Personality not only influences how we move and react to our en...

We all have sad moments in our lives. We all get hurt. We all have moments in our lives when our self-confidence starts to waver and we feel sorry for ourselves. But still it is important that you control your emotions and keep your faith. Nothing happens if the seed is put on the ground, it will rot. It has to be sown in order to grow. This is true whether you like it or not. Progress in every field is a change but not every change is progress. You all must have seen that when a tree starts drying up, the first birds leave it. But there are some birds who do not leave the tree till it falls. This shows his confidence. This is what we get to see in our life, if you have wealth then even unknown people become yours, but when your economic condition falls, you will find yourself alone. Success is the name of principles and principles are of nature. Change is the principle of cruelty. We are either moving forward or regressing. We are either creating work or destroying work. Nothing r...

Looking back, there was a tall man in front who was bigger than the clothes he worn or rather the lack of them, I remember him laughing a slow but very charming laugh, it seemed that he was an ascetic. There was a strange aura on his face, freshness in his voice, sweetness in his words, and a ray of light surrounded him. He was a very old man but his appearance gave the impression of a child. "You really know the confusion of my thoughts." He smiled gratefully. "The bountiful and terrifying illusions of nature, symbolized by Kali, have made people wiser than me." "Very few are able to penetrate its mystery. Good and evil are a challenging puzzle to every man's intelligence. Without making any effort to solve this puzzle, most people pay their death sentence. Sometimes a very only the higher personality rejects this defeat but draws everyone's attention to this indivisible truth. “I have long practiced the most painful path of enlightenment, na...