Stories About Diligence - Character Development Series

When we want more, or when we lack it, then love hurts. Losing a relationship can be extremely painful. Relationship, or love, is so important that it is the thing couples fight about the most. This happens in every small thing. Like we are watching a show. My partner is saying, "Wait, I want to see what this is about" and I keep scrolling, ignoring his quote, that seed of conflict has been sown. Alternatively, when I ask if we can go sightseeing this weekend and my spouse either says yes, and does not follow through, or says “sightseeing!" You know I hate going out unnecessarily! Being aware of how we create communications to connect with each other and paying attention to whether we are following through. Because it has been a while. Alternatively, even "I would love to, but because of the craziness at work I'm not up to it. Can we find another way to spend time together, and we can do it another weekend? Can we plan to do something new? Alternatively...

Everyone sets goals to find happiness in their life. Do you sometimes feel unsure about making the right choice, which makes you even more unhappy? I admit that I often feel lonely. I'm someone who wants to spend quality time with others, but often feel that many relationships are superficial. Unfortunately we often look to others to fill that void rather than the person who matters most, because the one who matters most can fill the void There is no right or wrong thing to do in life and every experience in life has the potential to enrich us, or it can become a curse. He suggests that if we can walk through life happily, no matter what happens, we can live beautifully. How we can take our destiny into our own hands and make happiness our constant companion. There is often a lack of understanding or experience. Sometimes there are comparisons that drive us further apart. We rarely have compassion, empathy or sympathy for those whose paths are not like ours. Everyone is fr...

There are many difficulties in life, still there is a smile on the lips, because when you have to live in every situation, then what is the harm in living with a smile, keep making new friends, keep eradicating hatred, keep grooming yourself and do good, life is that simple. And it is simple.? Life itself is an opportunity which comes only once, so it is important to take full advantage of it by laughing and smiling. Every moment, every moment is very precious because once it passes it will not come back. Life is made up of the unit of time, just as life also passes with time; Therefore, only the one who lives a hundred moments in one moment can make the best use of life, only the one who lets himself slip like a river while slipping through the sand is a true philosopher of life. The journey of life goes on the paths of the world. This is an unknown journey, the paths may also be difficult and the path ahead may not be known, hence one should use whatever is at hand. When everythi...

Life is a long journey full of challenges and obstacles but to win you have to decide your own destination towards victory. It is not just full of difficulties, it is full of ups and downs of happiness and sadness. Our one step can make a big difference in this journey. Life is a long journey in which we experience the world around us, understand its complexities, learn from our mistakes, improve beyond recognition, grow authentically, help others live better lives. They do this, value the life around them and have great respect for moral worth. The journey of life is full of surprises, challenges, broken hearts, extreme ups and downs, celebrations, special moments and memories that define our experience as a human being. Therefore, we should think well before taking a step forward. It is these events, planned or unexpected, that shape our journeys and define our purpose. The act of traveling from one place to another, especially in a vehicle, I love going on long trips. I star...

When there is worry in your mind, your body gets worried, there is fear and you feel tight. There is excitement when needed, eyes turn red when angry, tongue waters when tempted to eat. So it is clear from this that emotions affect the body. What don't you do when you have anger and hatred? Then will the faith and belief in our mind not have any effect? Are these so insignificant that they do not help your morale at all? Faith and belief calm your body, make your mind free from doubt, double and triple your intellect, relax your ego and remove every layer of ignorance. Faith and belief destroy humility, subservience and impurity, and bring about such chemical changes in the body that stool disorders go away, diseases and grief go away. This is a sure shot way to acquire the experiences of the great souls. When faith and belief in God is active in the heart, it washes away all the impurities. In place of lust, peace comes in the heart, indifference in place of anger, equanimi...

Today there are many saints, but there is no sadhana. Sadhana without sadhana is like paper flowers. In which there is a lot of multicolored attraction, but there is a complete lack of fragrance. Such paper flowers are seen everywhere today. Because of this, the intensity and brightness of religion has dimmed. Religion is impossible in the absence of spiritual practice. The roots of religion are in spiritual practice. In the absence of spiritual practice, a saint's life can either be mere acting or oppression. Both these things are not auspicious. False expression of penance is hypocrisy, while mere repression is even more deadly. There is the torture of struggle in it, but there is no achievement in it. That which is suppressed does not die, but slides into deeper layers. On the one hand, a saint without sadhna is tormented by the pangs of lust; His life keeps burning in their flames; The fierce race of desire keeps giving him pain every moment; On the other hand, the flames...

Today's women are emerging with strength. Today it is busy in creating its new identity by breaking the chains which were imposed on it in the past centuries. The areas which till yesterday were considered only the domain of men, have also become illuminated in the feminine form. Be it the field of education, sports, governance, administration, art, science, research or every field of society, culture or politics, she has got entry. It has gone ahead in some specific departments. The suffocating boundary walls of the house have now almost been broken. Yesterday's ordinary housewife is today becoming an efficient manager and discharging her responsibilities. There is innovation in this role, there is an aura of creativity. Although this talent was innate in women, it was getting suppressed and melting in the autocratic mentality of the male-dominated society. As soon as this resistance diminished, women's talent began to flourish. Education has brought a lot of qualit...

For the past five years, my life has been full of gloom, lots of complications, and no solution in sight in the near future. I can't call anyone mine. It is said that when the needle of treason pierces the balloons of relationships, the air of the good ones comes out. Sometimes I wonder, does the soul grow old along with age? Is the bond of relationships so weak that it breaks at the slightest sound? Coming to this stage of life, all friends have been left behind, relatives have become strangers, even children have started behaving like strangers. Our love life requires a few changes and some spring cleaning. Things have become slightly monotonous owing to both of us being submerged in work and not getting decent time to spend together. It has been long since you have done anything special together, leave alone sharing a meal. Whatever be the reason, it is necessary that I know the truth about love. I am of a focused mindset and prefer to deal with situations in front of me....

When people are aimless and directionless, they cannot look up. If a person has a desire to get something, there should be a direction to reach it. If you have the determination to stick to the focus and the discipline required for hard work, then the rest becomes easy. But if you do not have these qualities then all your other qualities are useless. Character is the foundation on which the whole building stands. It is permanent. Lack of Courage Successful people don't look for miracles or easy ways. When our mind is filled with courage, we overcome our fears and difficulties along the way. Courage does not mean absence of fear, courage means overcoming fear. Character without courage is ineffective, while courage without character, justice and integrity is tyranny. What is the difference between trying hard and persevering? The difference is that persistence shows determination, while stubbornness shows willfulness and obstinacy. Life's struggles can be sad or pleas...

Accompanying my mother to the doctor was another way of helping her during her illness. I made sure that she never missed an appointment and that he always followed her medication regimen. I kept track of her medication schedule, making sure she took her medicines on time and in the right doses. I also made sure she had all the necessary medical supplies. Emotional support was vital during his illness. I spent time with her, listened to her concerns, and offered encouragement. I made sure she didn't feel alone during this time and she knew she had someone to rely on. I tried to keep her upbeat by watching her favorite TV shows, playing board games, and reading books. I also made sure he stayed positive and optimistic and encouraged him to focus on his recovery. Helping my mother during her illness was a challenging but rewarding experience. I helped her with household chores, accompanied her to doctor's visits, and provided emotional support. The experience taught me the im...

She was admitted to the Intensive Care Unit in Delhi. The doctor carefully examined her and studied the past case history. Then he advised for several tests and started the necessary treatment. She was very worried after coming away from her entire family. She was so scared that she asked, "Will you let me stay here alone, you go back home." Perhaps the most important way I helped my mother during her illness was by providing emotional support and encouragement. I knew my mother was feeling scared and uncertain about her health, and I wanted to be there for her as much as possible. I listened to her worries and fears, saying words of comfort and reassurance whenever she needed it. I also encouraged her to stay positive and optimistic, reminding her that she is strong and capable of overcoming any obstacle that comes her way. Helping my mother during her illness was a challenging but rewarding experience. This gave me an opportunity to show my mother how much she means ...

It was in the month of March 2011 when I fell ill. In those days I was very scared that something very bad is going to happen in my life. I was often in this thinking. I was staying there alone with some of my co-workers. They often laugh at me for being such a believer. Many of them did not even believe in God. They were surprised for a while when I fell ill; but when the doctor told about the disease,. I had a stone in my gall bladder. I was admitted to the hospital for further monitoring and medical tests. Due to severe pain in my abdomen, I was shifted to the acute surgical ward for necessary treatment. The drugs are injected through the nerves; Due to which I fainted and on the third day my eyes opened but I was unable to even sit on my bed. I could not move my arms and legs but there is little movement in my fingers. When the ward boy saw me; He called the doctor. After some time the doctor came to me and asked about my condition. I could not even speak a word. The doctor...

There are differences in mutual views but there should not be differences of opinion. Because discord brings negativity in thoughts and creates a situation of conflict which sometimes takes a dreadful form; If this is not understood in time, then there is a possibility of conflict and then disintegration. To avoid this, conversation is necessary. Conversation solves every problem. Sometimes the solution which is not found through war becomes possible through negotiation. Even after a war, there is a solution through dialogue. Easy to read, relevant and easy to understand thoughts that will take your intellect from the old thinking framework to the modern era and help you overcome daily problems and clarify moral values. This will help you to test yourself. Indifference leads us to the deepest darkness but with positive conversation we can get out of it. We should increase our confidence in ourselves by acquiring the specialty in good thinking. By developing the art of converti...

Bhai Dooj is a festival celebrated by Hindus on the second lunar day of the Shukla Paksha of the Vikram Samvat Hindu calendar or Kartik month. It is celebrated during the Diwali and Holi festival. Bhaiya Dooj is one such occasion that can define the eternal love between brothers and sisters.  They are the best friends of each other, protectors of each other, admirers of each other and has unconditional love for each other. This wonderful festival is an important occasion where sisters pray to God for the longevity, well-being and prosperity of their beloved brother. It is celebrated on the last day of the five-day long festival of Diwali. It is also celebrated in the southern parts of India as "Yama Second".  According to the one legend, Lord Krishna visited his sister, Subhadra after killing demon Narkasur. Her sister gave a warm welcome to him and made the occasion really special through flowers and sweets. Subhadra also applied the ceremonial "tilak" on ...

Diwali is the festival of lights, which is celebrated with great pomp across India. The festival usually lasts for five days and is celebrated during the Hindu month of Kartik. One of the most popular festivals of Hinduism, Diwali spiritually signifies "the victory of light over darkness, good over evil, and wisdom over ignorance."  Diwali is the festival of Indian lights. The festival gets its name from the row of clay lamps that Indians light outside their homes. Earthen lamps symbolize the inner light that protects us from spiritual darkness.  The festival is dedicated to Lord Rama, who returned to his kingdom on this day after his victory over King Ravana of Lanka. He was welcomed by the citizens of Ayodhya by lighting lamps in front of their homes. The festival falls on the "Amavasya" of the Hindu month Karthik. This night is very dark, but in the light of the lamps there is not even a shadow of darkness.  Read More… दीवाली रोशनी का त्यौहार है, जो ...

We celebrate festivals as a tradition, but we forget those values of traditions. These days we end the festivals with a good meal, home decoration, cleaning around, etc. But can you think that these are not our traditions, we have modified them according to our comfort. We do not give gifts, but change them from one to the other on this day.   Let us celebrate this Diwali by spreading happiness. Light a lamp of joy in a house that has not even realized it. We should give gifts to those who need them. If we do this, it will be a meaningful Diwali for all of us. See also a day of happiness in the lives of those who see it from afar. Let's erase this line of distance and bring them together, which was drawn by us by mistake.   Diwali is a festival of light. Brighten the life of a homeless child, a shelter is nothing less than a house. Visit their home with gifts and smiles. You should aim to enjoy them. Carry simple toys, sweets and useful items like pens, notebooks, col...

It was summer, I was on the road from Jodhpur to Jaisalmer with my friends. It was night, and Weather was looking happy. We parked our vehicle near a restaurant and after a short walk we sat down to eat. It was a very crowded area, while there were very small flowers stall, other such shops and also a big temple in front of it, Therefore, there is always a crowd in that area.   We ordered food. There was some time to serve our food. My eyes fell on the owner of the restaurant, while a poor man was sitting with folded hands on the ground, the man's eyes were somewhat filled and stung, looking helpless with hunger and thirst. I got up and went to the owner of the restaurant and asked what is it, who is this this and why is he sitting down. The restaurant owner told that he has made this restaurant's hut, it was to be paid tomorrow but it has arrived today.  I liked the nature of the restaurant owner but he did not like the man coming in such a crowd. When I asked the ma...

My father advised the teacher, "Teach him a gentleman’s education." My father was not only fond of this young society, whose manners were always attractive; He also held the highest opinion of her, and hoped that philanthropy would be my profession, which I intended to impart to her. He always supported me to fulfill my dreams and what I love, how much risks there are. My father has taught me that family is essential, and never mind, my family will always be there for me.   By myself, it's been many, many years since I first started thinking of him very differently. The liberal instinct, wanting theory, was careful to protect the knowledge of his best friend and who had opportunities to see him in unexpected moments. Which nobody else could do. He has maintained a proper balance between administration and affection to build our character.   He was the essential part of the family as he laid out the foundation, which binds the family and its members in harmony. He t...