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The First Journey of My Life Part- I

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It was 07 Oct 1987, when we were pushed like animals in Pashchim Express train for Mumbai (Bombay). The crowd in the train was so heavy that, we could not take care of our luggage. We were only praying for our life. Train departed from New Delhi Railway station in the evening around 05’, o clock. Many people were screaming, "we will fall down, go inside", but there was no space in the train to move a centimeter. Then he made a vigorous push and we moved a foot further into it. Every movement was by force, individually we were unable to do anything. The train was moving at its speed and we were standing helpless.Train halted many stations but nothing was visible outside due to crowd. Condition was so bad that we had forgotten our hunger and thirst. Late night when I got slept, I could not remember. Perhaps it might be unconsciousness. Read More... वह 07 अक्टूबर 1987 दिन था, जब हमें मुंबई (बॉम्बे) के लिए पश्चिम एक्सप्रेस ट्रेन में जानवरों की तरह धकेल दिया गया था। ट्रे

Success by Diligence

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Diligence is the key to success. Strong determination and firm intention are necessary for success. Along with this, it is also necessary to have self-sufficiency. It is a precious mantra that never goes empty. Success and failure are like climate, which keeps on coming and going.  But some people work hard but are immersed in despair and frustration, always cursing the problems and destiny. Not once do they think that man's greatest enemy and all his failures are his own laziness. Such people never succeed and grow. To aspire to success is a different thing and for that one has to work hard and work hard, become a devoted to work. He gets the pleasure of labor, which performs every work like a festival. The more we labor, the deeper our joy and satisfaction will be drenched.  Read More...

Me and my status

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I was sitting in the courtyard of my house taking sips of morning tea. There was a newspaper on the table in front. It was the day of Holi. There was excitement among the people. I had a good status in the town. I was living for the last two years and was working in a high position. The phone rings. I had to go out from work. When I got out of the house, I saw that the color of Holi was at its peak all around. Somewhere red, somewhere yellow, somewhere the capillary color is being applied, somewhere people are hugging each other, somewhere dancing. No one was left out without colors. But nobody dared to stop looking at me. They are big men, don't mind and it was natural for me to have an important face. It was far away to putting color on me, Nobody even touched me from the beginning of the house till I came back home. Came home and sat in the same chair and got lost in the thoughts of the road. The colorful scenes of the road are coming in front of my eyes one by one, su

Wondering Stormy Night

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It was night when I woke up from sleep. It was still ranning, it was also necessary to go out. As soon as I was ready to get out of the house, my feet went into the water and I kept falling. Outside was very dark.  All around trees were standing like angels. As the stormy wind was winding, a corridor was there among the trees, it was not known where it was. There were shivering in the body due to drops of rain and wind. While leaving the house, he had forgotten to take rain. There was a strange nervousness in my mind. He was regretting his decision.  There was neither a population nor any human being visible, where shelter could be taken. The sounds of wild animals were making the atmosphere even more frightening. The circle was drying up, there was confusion about where to go. The legs were not getting up. The mind was reduced to zero. There was a strange sound in the clump of trees, the right courage also answered. Read More... सो कर उठा तब रात हो गयी थी। बारिस अब भी हो रही थी, ब

Either troubled for water or by water

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The rivers of rivers are spread in eastern India due to which floods occur every year, and bring floods of destruction. To this day, the government does not pay any attention. There is an air tour, loss is assessed, but does it honestly compensate for the loss of goods and life.  Along with this, some time someone has thought that how is the life of people living in difficult circumstances in this natural disaster. No one sees whether people are getting food or not. The natural resources which should be a boon for us, have become a curse due to the neglect of our administration. In North India, everyone must have heard the dispute between Punjab - Haryana and Rajasthan. The situation is no different in South India as well, Kaveri controversy is an example of this. Can the Government not save our India from the loss of several thousand crores every year by implementing the Prime Minister Canal Project like the Prime Minister Road Project, which will bring another prosperity in the li

The Days We lost Part-II

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In my family there were my grandfather, three uncles and aunts, besides my parents, four boys and five girls of elder brother of my father, we were four brothers and one sister, and my two uncles had six boys and four girls. There were twenty-nine members in our family. With the gradual passage of time, the situation of separatism in the family arose due to the small house which my younger uncle started. The house was just an excuse, the younger one was his mindset, especially my aunt, because my uncle was the only source of external income in the house, everyone else did farming.  Whereas today we are four brothers, living at various locations. Two are in the village, settled in a different city and I separate. My story is very modern. I have two girls and a boy. My elder girl works elsewhere. Where she lives with her mother. I live with a girl and a boy. Perhaps this is called modernism when not only the family, members of the family also live separately. Read More... मेरे मेरे पर

The Days We lost by "Aks"

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What were those days? At night, they used to sit in the courtyard of the house after putting a cot. They used to tell their own things among themselves. Where the fatigue of the day was lost in a moment was not known. There used to be a good gathering, it seemed that some big program was happening.  Children used to play and run among themselves. It seemed like a performance without any expense. Today, even we are spending a lot does not look that amazing. There was no brotherhood like those days. Today moral values have changed, Relationships have changed. Relatives have become guests. The members of the house became relatives. Formalism is left everywhere.  When the whole village was a family. Now the family is not together. What will the children be with grandparents, they do not like to live with their parents. Many of us do not have work, but still we do not have time for others. Today the world has come so close, yet people are far away. Read More... Cont'd दिन, जो हमने खो

Women, Society and her Status

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Women have to work much harder to make it in this world. Even though a mother has a vital part to play in the child's life, the men in the family take major decisions regarding his/her future and that of others in the family. It really pisses me off that women don’t get the same opportunities as men do, or money for that matter. Because lets face it, money gives men the power to run the show. It gives men the power to define our values and to define what’s sexy and what’s feminine and that’s bullshit.  At the end of the day, it’s not about equal rights, it’s about how we think. We have to reshape our own perception of how we view ourselves. We can make our society much better by standing both together. Read More...   इस दुनिया को बनाने में महिलाओं को बहुत ज्यादा मेहनत करनी पड़ती है। यहाँ तक कि एक माँ का बच्चे के जीवन में महत्वपूर्ण हिस्सा होता है, परिवार में पुरुष अपने भविष्य और परिवार के अन्य लोगों के बारे में बड़े फैसले लेते हैं।  यह वास्तव में मुझे नाराज करता है कि महिलाओं

Our Yesterday Versus Today by "Aks"

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When there is a transaction of one commodity or service against another, it is called Barter System. In this system no social unit (currency) was used.  Before the emergence of currency, all transactions were in the form of barter. While we think of that time today, we can feel ashamed. But it was easily done at that time. There was a lot of affection in the society. Everyone took care of others. Loyalty, honesty and social values ​​were at the top.  While today we think for that time, we may feel ashamed. But that time it was done with ease. Lots of affection in the society. Everyone takes care of others.  Today, it may seem our society doesn’t practice many values. We have a rise in discrimination, abuse of power, greed, etc. What are we leaving behind for our future generations? Maybe it’s time society takes a hard look at its values.  Values can be contagious; if you practice them, many others will also, including our children. Hopefully more practice from all of us will leav

"Mother" The Best Creation of God

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Mother is the one who gives birth to us, this is the reason that every life creatures in the world is called mother. If someone is our partner in our happiness and sorrow at the beginning of our life, then she is our mother.  She never lets us realize that we are alone in times of crisis. Has anyone seen God, I say proudly, yes, I have seen God as my mother and father. When I make a mistake, the mother does not scold me but lovingly explain me. When I am sad, my mother brings a smile to my withering face.  Having forgotten their love and affectionate touch, I forget all my sorrows. Mother is the goddess of love. She always tells good things to her children and learns to follow the path of truth.It is said that mother is a boon given to us by God. Thank him that he gave me the best mother in the world.  Read More... ईश्वर का सर्वश्रेष्ठ सृजन माँ वह है जो हमें जन्म देती है, यहीं कारण है कि संसार में हर जीवनदायनी जीव को माँ की संज्ञा दी गयी है। यदि हमारे जीवन के शुरुआती समय में कोई हम

Aware of Fake Friend that Hugs You

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I had joined the job in 1987. A clever man entered in our life to assist my family in my absence.   He helped my family by lending money at 24 percent compounded interest.  I came home after one year. The man called me at his home and was very pleased to inform me that how he has looked after my family in my absence. I shocked when I had seen the record. The gentlemen had doubled the amount what he had lent to my family.  I paid his principal along with interest and asked him not show this type of favour in future. Thus I had spent all the money that I brought along with me for some betterment of my family. I asked my family to curtail their expenditure in place of borrowing money from these types of people. Read More... Cont’d मैंने 1987 में नौकरी ज्वाइन की थी। मेरी अनुपस्थिति में मेरे परिवार की सहायता के लिए एक चतुर व्यक्ति हमारे जीवन में आया। उन्होंने 24 प्रतिशत चक्रवृद्धि ब्याज पर पैसा उधार देकर मेरे परिवार की मदद की।  मैं एक साल बाद घर आया। उस आदमी ने मुझे अपने घर पर बुला

Health & Fitness: Cardio Workouts

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Fitness means different things to different people and health has something for everyone.  Gyms across the country are closed due to the outbreak of COVID-19, but you continue to exercise regularly. There are many benefits from making your body move and sweating. Including mood boost, instant energy, and general health benefits.  When you use rope jumping as a workout routine, you increase your heart rate to a higher intensity than it is used to. High intensity workouts make your heart strong and reduce the risk of heart attack and heart disease. Rope jumping helps you develop both upper and lower body muscles. It speeds up your fat burning process and also reduces abdominal fat. Rope jumping is a simple, effective and easy way to maintain health, lose weight and reduce stress.    Read More... फिटनेस का मतलब अलग-अलग लोगों के लिए अलग-अलग चीजों से है और हेल्थ में हर किसी के लिए कुछ न कुछ है।  COVID-19 के फैलने के कारण देश भर में जिम बंद हैं, लेकिन आप नियमित व्यायाम करते रहे । आप

The Difficult Situation for Us to Come Out

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My father had gone in grief, as it is an overwhelming emotion. It’s not unusual to respond to the intense and often sudden feelings by pretending the loss or change isn’t happening.  This is a common defense mechanism and helps numb you to the intensity of the situation. The emotions was hiding began to rise. That is also part of the journey of grief, but it can be difficult. This was a difficult situation for us to come out. He felt very different in this stage. That’s entirely expected. He had a major change in his life, and that upends the way he feel about many things.  Look to acceptance as a way to see that there may be more good days than bad, but there may still be bad. He became hopeless and never tried for the betterment of the life with this fear. He could not forget it in his life. Read More... Cont'd मेरे पिता गहरे शोक में चले गए थे, क्योंकि यह उनकी भावनाओं को एक जबरदस्त झटका था। नुकसान या बदलाव से भावनाओं को अचानक और गहरा आघात लगने की वजह ऐसी प्रतिक्रिया करना

A Kind Stranger is Better Than an Uncaring Friend

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I had joined the job in 1987. A clever man entered in our life to assist my family in my absence.  He helped my family by lending money at 24 percent compounded interest.  I came home after one year. The man called me at his home and was very pleased to inform me that how he has looked after my family in my absence. I shocked when I had seen the record. The gentlemen had doubled the amount what he had lent to my family. I paid his principal along with interest and asked him not show this type of favour in future. Thus I had spent all the money that I brought along with me for some betterment of my family. I asked my family to curtail their expenditure in place of borrowing money from these types of people. Read More... Cont’d मैंने 1987 में नौकरी ज्वाइन की थी। मेरी अनुपस्थिति में मेरे परिवार की सहायता के लिए एक चतुर व्यक्ति हमारे जीवन में आया। उन्होंने 24 प्रतिशत चक्रवृद्धि ब्याज पर पैसा उधार देकर मेरे परिवार की मदद की। मैं एक साल बाद घर आया। उस आदमी ने मुझे अपने घर पर बुलाया और मु

Love with Authority by "Aks"

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A large part of life passed in this house, but never rested. The world takes pleasure in praising those who put their apocalypse behind the garrisons. The person who sacrifice for the family does not praise the world. Similarly, people who die for outsiders, why did the housemates start praising them. If two of your servants are of the same category, there will never be any quarrel between them; but you make one of them an officer and the other as his subordinate, then look, how much officer is applauding his subordinates. The foundation of a happy marriage can be laid on authority. Love may reside in this contrast, I doubt it. What we call love among men and women today is the same love that the master has with his animal. Let the animal bend his head, the owner will also give him straw and a cake, and will also rub his body, he will also wear jewelry; but the animal slowed down slightly, bent its neck so that the owner's whip fell on the back. It is not called love. Read More

When Man Becomes Machine

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Human can think , take his decisions and act as per his choice or priority but machines are incapable of this quality which makes human beings unique and at the same time superior to them.  But you might heard a human becomes machine. He either works on command or like a program. In this case he usually finds him alone. Thus it becomes his habit. He lose his relations in the society.  You will find this type of behavior in people who have rules and fixed timings for doing every task every day because they are either afraid to express themselves or they cannot. Because they got some advice on how to behave in certain situations. Sometimes it is also just easier to not think. Thus they does not live a peaceful life. Read More... मानव सोच सकता है, अपने फैसले ले सकता है और अपनी पसंद या प्राथमिकता के अनुसार कार्य कर सकता है लेकिन मशीनें इस गुण के लिए अक्षम हैं जो मानव को अद्वितीय बनाती है और साथ ही साथ उनसे बेहतर भी होती है।  लेकिन आपने सुना होग जब एक मानव मशीन बन जाता है तब वह या तो