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Why do relationships become painful?

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When we want more, or when we lack it, then love hurts. Losing a relationship can be extremely painful. Relationship, or love, is so important that it is the thing couples fight about the most. This happens in every small thing. Like we are watching a show. My partner is saying, "Wait, I want to see what this is about" and I keep scrolling, ignoring his quote, that seed of conflict has been sown. Alternatively, when I ask if we can go sightseeing this weekend and my spouse either says yes, and does not follow through, or says “sightseeing!" You know I hate going out unnecessarily! Being aware of how we create communications to connect with each other and paying attention to whether we are following through. Because it has been a while. Alternatively, even "I would love to, but because of the craziness at work I'm not up to it. Can we find another way to spend time together, and we can do it another weekend? Can we plan to do something new? Alternatively...

Let Joy Be Your Constant Companion

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Everyone sets goals to find happiness in their life. Do you sometimes feel unsure about making the right choice, which makes you even more unhappy? I admit that I often feel lonely. I'm someone who wants to spend quality time with others, but often feel that many relationships are superficial. Unfortunately we often look to others to fill that void rather than the person who matters most, because the one who matters most can fill the void There is no right or wrong thing to do in life and every experience in life has the potential to enrich us, or it can become a curse. He suggests that if we can walk through life happily, no matter what happens, we can live beautifully. How we can take our destiny into our own hands and make happiness our constant companion. There is often a lack of understanding or experience. Sometimes there are comparisons that drive us further apart. We rarely have compassion, empathy or sympathy for those whose paths are not like ours. Everyone is fr...

Testament to The Power of Resilience

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The desert is a testament to the power of resilience. Despite its harsh conditions, life manages to survive and thrive. It teaches us to be resilient in the face of adversity, recover from failures and keep moving forward. A desert is a vast area of dry, barren land. Deserts are either hot or cold environments with relatively little rainfall throughout the year. Deserts are characterized by a lack of vegetation and trees. Cactus-like plants and shrubs which are thorny and woody are found in deserts. An oasis appears to be a green island in the desert. Desert plants and animals can survive with little water. However, many other animals and plants cannot survive in deserts. The desert is an endless sandy scene, undulating dunes, sand all around. Even the sand blowing in the wind keeps blowing on your face. But despite such minor tortures, the desert is supernaturally beautiful, enchanting, mind-numbing, hypnotizing. Sunset and dawn cannot be described in words. It may seem like no...

Views and Viewpoints of Thinking

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It is a universal truth that change is the law of nature. After every night comes a day. Similar changes keep happening in our lives also. Some things change as per our wish and some things happen automatically without our efforts. Just as stagnant water gets filled with dirt and flowing water automatically remains clean and pure. Similar changes keep happening in human life also. Sometimes the scenery changes and sometimes the view of thinking changes. The change of scenery is not only refreshing; In some circumstances, this is the right choice. Different people see the same person in different ways. It is not certain that every Sunday is a holiday, it does not mean that every holiday will be followed by a Monday. Recognizing that, in terms of personal growth and development, we are not at the level we believe we should be. If we do not first change ourselves i.e. do not create a better self; So no matter where we go, who we meet, whatever new situation we find ourselves in, we...

My Dream House an Image of the Universe

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In the month of January my family decided to buy a new house, as that house was small for my family, I was also very excited to get my new house. Specifically, I wanted a new bedroom so we went to the next societies in search of a new house; my family wanted a big hall and a room for their indoor activities. We searched a lot for a house. In our imagination; Our house should be very well lit. Maximum sunlight should be provided by skylights and tall windows. The place should be much bigger than our old house. We first looked at our needs and then looked at the budget. Is our household budget matching our needs? The next step was to add some modern touches, which we were very happy with. Our aim was to find a home that reflected its traditional values, but with a touch of modernity. We combined classic features like terracotta grills with more contemporary additions like box projections, glass extensions and glass staircases to find this beautiful, timeless property; Which we can...

Stress Management

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Being prepared for periods of stress can make it easier to recover from them. In addition, knowing how to manage our well-being can help us recover after a stressful event. Some of us may refer to our ability to manage stress as our resilience. Try to take time to relax. It may seem difficult if you can't do anything to stop a situation that is causing you stress. However, if you can give yourself a short break, it may help with how you feel. Check out our pages on relaxation for some tips and exercises. Spending time doing things you enjoy can help distract you from a stressful situation. If stress is making you feel lonely or isolated, shared hobbies can also be a good way to meet new people. Spending time in nature can help reduce stress and improve health. You can try taking a walk in a green space, caring for indoor plants, or spending time with animals. There is more information on our nature and mental health pages. Taking care of your physical health is a big...

Stress: State of Anxiety

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The state of anxiety or mental tension arising due to any difficult situation is called stress. Stress is a natural human response that motivates us to deal with challenges and threats in our lives. Every person experiences stress to some degree. Stress can occur when you have too many responsibilities and are struggling to manage them. If your family is going through a difficult time, such as bereavement or financial problems, if you belong to a religious group that faces discrimination. Sometimes, a little stress can help us accomplish tasks and feel more energetic. However, stress can become a problem when it lasts for a long time or is very intense. In some cases, stress can affect our physical and mental health. You may hear health care professionals refer to certain types of stress as 'acute' or 'chronic'. Acute stress occurs within minutes to hours of an event. It lasts for a short time, usually less than a few weeks, and is very intense. This may happen...

Success Is Not Just a Coincidence

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Success is not just a coincidence. This is the result of our perspective and we can choose our own perspective. Therefore, success is a matter of choice, not of chance. Most of the people keep waiting for a lottery to take place, but can they get success in it? You have to choose to work hard and you have to choose to be in the right place at the right time. You also have to be able to recognize what an opportunity looks like. Nothing happens by chance. Everything happens for a reason. Success is an opportunity and opportunity comes only to those who prepare themselves. Chance or luck is being prepared to see an opportunity. Our continuous efforts can make any impossible task possible. Just as a continuously flowing river cuts even a mountain. If you want to win, consider these thoughts. The eagerness to do something new always takes a person to his destination. Many types of obstacles come in the way of success due to which a person loses and changes his path. Those who maintain t...

A Journey of A Lifetime on The Roads of The World

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There are many difficulties in life, still there is a smile on the lips, because when you have to live in every situation, then what is the harm in living with a smile, keep making new friends, keep eradicating hatred, keep grooming yourself and do good, life is that simple. And it is simple.? Life itself is an opportunity which comes only once, so it is important to take full advantage of it by laughing and smiling. Every moment, every moment is very precious because once it passes it will not come back. Life is made up of the unit of time, just as life also passes with time; Therefore, only the one who lives a hundred moments in one moment can make the best use of life, only the one who lets himself slip like a river while slipping through the sand is a true philosopher of life. The journey of life goes on the paths of the world. This is an unknown journey, the paths may also be difficult and the path ahead may not be known, hence one should use whatever is at hand. When everythi...

Life's Journey is Like a Highland Drive

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Life is a long journey full of challenges and obstacles but to win you have to decide your own destination towards victory. It is not just full of difficulties, it is full of ups and downs of happiness and sadness. Our one step can make a big difference in this journey. Life is a long journey in which we experience the world around us, understand its complexities, learn from our mistakes, improve beyond recognition, grow authentically, help others live better lives. They do this, value the life around them and have great respect for moral worth. The journey of life is full of surprises, challenges, broken hearts, extreme ups and downs, celebrations, special moments and memories that define our experience as a human being. Therefore, we should think well before taking a step forward. It is these events, planned or unexpected, that shape our journeys and define our purpose. The act of traveling from one place to another, especially in a vehicle, I love going on long trips. I star...

Faith and Belief

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When there is worry in your mind, your body gets worried, there is fear and you feel tight. There is excitement when needed, eyes turn red when angry, tongue waters when tempted to eat. So it is clear from this that emotions affect the body. What don't you do when you have anger and hatred? Then will the faith and belief in our mind not have any effect? Are these so insignificant that they do not help your morale at all? Faith and belief calm your body, make your mind free from doubt, double and triple your intellect, relax your ego and remove every layer of ignorance. Faith and belief destroy humility, subservience and impurity, and bring about such chemical changes in the body that stool disorders go away, diseases and grief go away. This is a sure shot way to acquire the experiences of the great souls. When faith and belief in God is active in the heart, it washes away all the impurities. In place of lust, peace comes in the heart, indifference in place of anger, equanimi...

The Journey of Life is Full of Surprises

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Life is a long journey full of challenges and obstacles but to win you have to decide your own destination towards victory. It is not just full of difficulties, it is full of ups and downs of happiness and sadness. Our one step can make a big difference in this journey. Life is a long journey in which we experience the world around us, understand its complexities, learn from our mistakes, improve beyond recognition, grow authentically, help others live better lives. They do this, value the life around them and have great respect for moral worth. The journey of life is full of surprises, challenges, broken hearts, extreme ups and downs, celebrations, special moments and memories that define our experience as a human being. Therefore, we should think well before taking a step forward. It is these events, planned or unexpected, that shape our journeys and define our purpose. The act of traveling from one place to another, especially in a vehicle, I love going on long trips. I st...

The True Spiritual Practice

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Today there are many saints, but there is no sadhana. Sadhana without sadhana is like paper flowers. In which there is a lot of multicolored attraction, but there is a complete lack of fragrance. Such paper flowers are seen everywhere today. Because of this, the intensity and brightness of religion has dimmed. Religion is impossible in the absence of spiritual practice. The roots of religion are in spiritual practice. In the absence of spiritual practice, a saint's life can either be mere acting or oppression. Both these things are not auspicious. False expression of penance is hypocrisy, while mere repression is even more deadly. There is the torture of struggle in it, but there is no achievement in it. That which is suppressed does not die, but slides into deeper layers. On the one hand, a saint without sadhna is tormented by the pangs of lust; His life keeps burning in their flames; The fierce race of desire keeps giving him pain every moment; On the other hand, the flames...

Today's Women are Strong and Capable

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Today's women are emerging with strength. Today it is busy in creating its new identity by breaking the chains which were imposed on it in the past centuries. The areas which till yesterday were considered only the domain of men, have also become illuminated in the feminine form. Be it the field of education, sports, governance, administration, art, science, research or every field of society, culture or politics, she has got entry. It has gone ahead in some specific departments. The suffocating boundary walls of the house have now almost been broken. Yesterday's ordinary housewife is today becoming an efficient manager and discharging her responsibilities. There is innovation in this role, there is an aura of creativity. Although this talent was innate in women, it was getting suppressed and melting in the autocratic mentality of the male-dominated society. As soon as this resistance diminished, women's talent began to flourish. Education has brought a lot of qualit...

Blind Turning of My Life

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For the past five years, my life has been full of gloom, lots of complications, and no solution in sight in the near future. I can't call anyone mine. It is said that when the needle of treason pierces the balloons of relationships, the air of the good ones comes out. Sometimes I wonder, does the soul grow old along with age? Is the bond of relationships so weak that it breaks at the slightest sound? Coming to this stage of life, all friends have been left behind, relatives have become strangers, even children have started behaving like strangers. Our love life requires a few changes and some spring cleaning. Things have become slightly monotonous owing to both of us being submerged in work and not getting decent time to spend together. It has been long since you have done anything special together, leave alone sharing a meal. Whatever be the reason, it is necessary that I know the truth about love. I am of a focused mindset and prefer to deal with situations in front of me....

Dogma: Undefined Certainty

Dogma is any belief held unquestionably and with undefined certainty. It can also be found in political belief systems such as fascism, progressivism, liberalism, and conservatism. In a pejorative sense, dogma refers to enforced decisions, such as the decisions of aggressive political interests or officials. Generally, it is applied to some strong belief that its adherents are unwilling to discuss rationally. In a pejorative sense, dogma refers to enforced decisions, such as the decisions of aggressive political interests or officials. Generally, it is applied to some strong belief that its adherents are unwilling to discuss rationally. This attitude is named dogma or dogma, and is often used to refer to matters related to religion, but is not limited to theistic attitudes and is often used in relation to political or philosophical dogma. "Dogma" implies agreement on the proposition of some non-obvious matter. That which denotes the capacity to prevent the assent of p...

श्रीसुक्तम्

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हरिः ॐ हिरण्यवर्णां हरिणीं सुवर्णरजतस्रजाम् । चन्द्रां हिरण्मयीं लक्ष्मीं जातवेदो म आ वह ॥१॥  तां म आवह जातवेदो लक्ष्मीमनपगामिनीम् । यस्यां हिरण्यं विन्देयं गामश्वं पुरुषानहम् ॥२॥ अश्वपूर्वां रथमध्यां हस्तिनादप्रबोधिनीम् । श्रियं देवीमुपह्वये श्रीर्मा देवी जुषताम् ॥३॥  कां सोस्मितां हिरण्यप्राकारा मार्द्रां ज्वलन्तीं तृप्तां तर्पयन्तीम् ।  पद्मे स्थितां पद्मवर्णां तामिहोपह्वये श्रियम् ॥४॥  चन्द्रां प्रभासां यशसा ज्वलन्तीं श्रियं लोके देवजुष्टामुदाराम् । तां पद्मिनीमीं शरणमहं प्रपद्येऽलक्ष्मीर्मे नश्यतां त्वां वृणे ॥५॥  आदित्यवर्णे तपसोऽधिजातो वनस्पतिस्तव वृक्षोऽथ बिल्वः ।  तस्य फलानि तपसानुदन्तु मायान्तरायाश्च बाह्या अलक्ष्मीः ॥६॥  उपैतु मां देवसखः कीर्तिश्च मणिना सह ।  प्रादुर्भूतोऽस्मि राष्ट्रेऽस्मिन् कीर्तिमृद्धिं ददातु मे ॥७॥  क्षुत्पिपासामलां ज्येष्ठामलक्ष्मीं नाशयाम्यहम् ।  अभूतिमसमृद्धिं च सर्वां निर्णुद मे गृहात् ॥८॥  गन्धद्वारां दुराधर्षां नित्यपुष्टां करीषिणीम् ।  ईश्वरींग् सर्वभूतानां तामिहोपह्वये श्रियम् ॥९॥...