Discuss but Don’t Argue

In the evening, while walking after dinner, we sit on the nook and talk to each other. But there are some personalities who can be labeled as quarrelsome and this is reflected in their relationships and behaviour.

Controversy and debate can be avoided and by taking a little care, a man can stay away from many conflicts. The best way to win an argument is not to participate in it at all. Because debate is such a thing that it cannot be won. Because even if you win in this you will lose and if you lose then you will definitely lose. If you win an argument, you lose a good friend or life partner. Arguments are born out of false ego.

Arguing is like fighting a losing battle. Even after winning the emotional battles, pain is left in the heart. One who thinks that he knows everything; He is an idiot, but an even bigger idiot is the one who participates in the debate. If you want to achieve a big position in life, then you have to be mature and sensible. Because-

• Argument brings fire and logic lights.

• Arguments stem from arrogance and a closed mind, while arguments stem from an open mind and a spirit to learn.

• Ignorance is displayed in the debate while knowledge is displayed in the argument.

• Arguments are tried to prove while in logic what is true is proved.

A small mind and a big mouth can sometimes lead to pointless but interesting debates. It is necessary that we should know the art of speaking but not of retaliating. We should know the art of disagreement without being quarrelsome. If we feel that it will not work, then it would be better to politely agree to disagree with respect.