Stories About Diligence - Character Development Series

Wearing earring does not increase the beauty of the ears, the beauty of the ears increases by listening to the spiritual discourse. In the same way, wearing a bracelet in hands does not make them beautiful, their beauty increases by performing auspicious works i.e. donations. Thus the beauty of the body of the Gentlemen is not by applying sandalwood, but it comes from work done for well-being of others. Read More… कुंडल पहन लेने से कानों की शोभा नहीं बढ़ती,कानों की शोभा शिक्षा प्रद बातों को सुनने से बढ़ती हैं । उसी प्रकार हाथों में कंगन धारण करने से वे सुन्दर नहीं होते उनकी शोभा शुभ कार्यों अर्थात दान देने से बढ़ती हैं । परहित करने वाले सज्जनों का शरीर भी चन्दन से नहीं अपितु परहित मे किये गये कार्यों से शोभायमान होता हैं ।

In 1990, we boarded a train from Mumbai to Delhi. Do not know why the train coach seemed to be empty today. It was not crowded like other days. We fell asleep when train departed from the station. In the morning, gossiping with fellow travelers started over tea. I wish you had been with us, because we were having such fun! As we are together. “When we are away we had so much fun. Think how much fun we would have had!"   We felt that we should never get off the coach. I was ready to die of laughter. And then we were so happy all over the way to house that we were talking about the train compartment and laughed so loudly, that anybody might have heard us ten miles off!” Read More… 1990 में हम मुंबई से दिल्ली के लिए रेल डिब्बे में सवार हुए। ना जाने क्यों आज डिब्बा खाली खाली सा जान पड़ता था। अन्य दिनों की तरह आज भीड़ नहीं थीं। गाड़ी चलने पर हम सो गए। सुबह उठे तो चाय पर सह -यात्रियों के साथ गपशप शुरू हो गयी। काश आप हमारे साथ गए होते, क्योंकि हमें ऐसा मज़ा आ रहा था! जैसे हम साथ में है

My mother was born in economically and socially sound family at Village Dhosi, District Jhunjhunu of Rajasthan State. Their primary source of income was agriculture.  She had primary education at her village but it was discontinued to social curse on women education. She had contributed for household work as well as in agriculture.  Between her four brothers and one sister, she was the only unfortunate person who faced many crises in life after marriage, but with her hard work and determination, she had overcome all difficulties from our lives.  She never got rest in her life and when it came time to rest, she left this world. It seems that she was born to face difficulties. We could not get a chance to serve her. Read More... मेरी माँ का जन्म राजस्थान राज्य के जिला झुंझुनू के ग्राम ढोसी में आर्थिक और सामाजिक रूप से संपन्न परिवार में हुआ था। उनकी आय का प्राथमिक स्रोत कृषि था। उनके गांव में उनकी प्राथमिक शिक्षा थी, लेकिन इसे महिला शिक्षा पर सामाजिक अभिशाप के कारण बंद कर दिया गया था

We lived in a small house with a thatched roof and a dirt floor.  We couldn’t think to repair it at that time. My mother worked in the fields at least ten hours per day to feed us. She reckoned her generation was “the bridge between the past and the future,” and felt a responsibility to help us by her hard work. She believed in what he had, that there was no complaint from anyone else. Thus, the misery, fear and economic deprivation of my childhood were forever etched into my psyche. Read More... हम एक छोटे से घर में एक फूस की छत और एक कच्चे फर्श के साथ रहते थे। हम उस समय इसकी मरम्मत करने के बारे में नहीं सोच सकते थे। वह हमें खिलाने के लिए प्रति दिन कम से कम दस घंटे खेतों में काम करती थी। उनका मानना था कि उनकी पीढ़ी "अतीत और भविष्य के बीच का सेतु" थी, और अपनी मेहनत से हमारी मदद करने की जिम्मेदारी महसूस की। उसे, उसके पास क्या है, में ही विश्वास था कि और किसी से कोई शिकायत नहीं थी । इस प्रकार, मेरे बचपन का दुख, भय और आर्थिक अभाव हमेशा के लिए मेरे मानस में अंकित हो गया

Humans get tired of crossing the third stage of life. His senses start answering. Gradually, he starts wearing tolerance . His hands and feet begin to relax, physical strength starts to respond, at this time he feels the need for support. Along with physical strength, mental strength also declines. His ears start to hear less, the taste of the tongue disappears. Nearby things either appear far away or blurry, and they are seen as their shadow. Whenever you encounter God with true love and selfless spirit. May your wishes be fulfilled, why not something like this, which can be remembered by everyone with love? Read More… ज़िन्दगी के तीसरे पड़ाव को पार करते करते इंसान थक जाता हैं। उसकी इन्द्रियां जवाब देने लगती हैं। धीरे धीरे वह सहनशीलता धारण करने लगता हैं। उसके हाथ पैर शिथिल होने लगते हैं, शारीरिक शक्ति जवाब देने लगती हैं, इस समय उसे सहारे की जरूरत महसूस होती हैं। शारीरिक शक्ति के साथ साथ मानसिक शक्ति का भी ह्रास होता हैं। उसके कानो से कम सुनाई देने लगता हैं, जीभ का स्वाद ख़त्म हो

Mistakes increases your experience and experiences decreases your mistakes. If you learn from your mistakes then others learn from your success. When we don't learn from our mistakes, we inflict unnecessary stress on ourselves and on others, and we have a risk of losing people's confidence and trust in us. We will not call a mistake which is done intentionally, the mistake done intentionally is an offence.Therefore, when you make a mistake, you can learn from it and fix it. It is better to bring your error out than hide it. Read More... गलतियाँ आपके अनुभव को बढ़ाती हैं और अनुभव आपकी गलतियों को कम करते हैं। अगर आप अपनी गलतियों से सीखते हैं तो दूसरे आपकी सफलता से सीखते हैं। जब हम अपनी गलतियों से नहीं सीखते हैं, तो हम अपने आप पर और दूसरों पर अनावश्यक तनाव डालते हैं। हम लोगों के विश्वास और हम पर भरोसा खोने का जोखिम उठाते हैं। हम ऐसी गलती को गलती नहीं कहेंगे जो जानबूझकर की गई हो, जानबूझकर की गई गलती एक अपराध है। इसलिए, जब आप कोई गलती करते हैं, तो आप इससे सीख सकते हैं और इसे ठीक कर स

Just as criticism is a very important and elaborate subject and there are many critics available around us at the same time. Everything is valued in this world, but it is free to criticize. Let it be it domestic, international, social, religious or political issues, every human is involved without thinking that the issue will benefit or harm.Criticism without thinking becomes worse when it takes a form of movement.  Criticism done on right way is very helpful to us to make our attitude to think again on the subject for the better result. It can help learn higher-order thinking skills and gain deep content knowledge. Read More... जिस प्रकार आलोचना एक बहुत ही महत्वपूर्ण एवं विस्तृत विषय हैं और एक ही समय में हमारे आसपास बहुत सारे आलोचक उपलब्ध हैं । इस दुनिया में हर चीज का मूल्य है, लेकिन आलोचना करना नि: शुल्क है । जिस प्रकार आलोचना एक बहुत ही महत्वपूर्ण एवं विस्तृत विषय हैं और एक ही समय में हमारे आसपास बहुत सारे आलोचक उपलब्ध हैं । इस दुनिया में हर चीज का मूल्य है, लेकिन आलोचना करन

Hard work is another name for not stopping from trying, but trying again and again until the goal is achieved. When your goal becomes clear to you, hard work becomes right. If a person is poor, but a hard worker; He can change his fortunes by working hard and becoming rich. This applies not only to an individual, but also to countries. On the contrary, afraid of hard work, lazy people sit down exhausted and curse their fate. It is a set of values focused on the importance of work and manifests with a strong desire to do work. Read More... कड़ी मेहनत, कोशिश करने से नहीं रुकने का दूसरा नाम है, लेकिन लक्ष्य प्राप्त होने तक बार-बार कोशिश करना। जब आपका लक्ष्य आपके लिए स्पष्ट हो जाता है, तो कड़ी मेहनत सही हो जाती है।  यदि कोई व्यक्ति गरीब है, लेकिन एक मेहनती है; वह कड़ी मेहनत करके और अमीर बनकर अपना भाग्य बदल सकता है। यह बात न केवल एक व्यक्ति पर, बल्कि देशों पर भी लागू होती है। इसके विपरीत कड़ी मेहनत से डरने वाले, आलसी व्यक्ति थक हार कर बैठ जाते हैं और अपने भाग्य को कोसते रहते हैं। यह काम के म

"How could I forget that day?" It was 20 March 1985. We all gathered in our school hall. This was our last day in high school. It was our school's tradition to arrange a feast for outgoing students. All our mates were busy organising a tea party for us. Our exams were declared. The environment was a mixture of sorrow and joy.   One side, there was happiness to go to college but on the other sadness for farewell from school. Everyone was hugging and wishing each other good luck. All had kept a silence when our headmaster entered in the hall. He gave us lots of advice and wished for a bright future ahead. The party concluded with tears in the eyes of everyone including some of our teachers. Read More "मैं उस दिन को कैसे भूल सकता था।" यह 20 मार्च 1985 था। हम सभी अपने स्कूल के हॉल में एकत्रित  हुए थें। छात्रों के लिए एक पार्टी की व्यवस्था करना हमारे स्कूल की परंपरा थी। हाई स्कूल में यह हमारा आखिरी दिन था। बहिर्गामी छात्रों के लिए एक दावत की व्यवस्था करना हमारे स्कूल

You can make someone look very beautiful and impress others with your personality. But when you come to know that his character has flaws then his first impression disappears. Due to his character, you may hate him. His personality that used to influence others can no longer affect them. It turns into hatred in due time. On the other hand you can consider the case of an ugly person. If his character will be attractive and good, all will like him. His attitude will surely change into love and affection.  The best example of this is Swami Ramdev, who is famous worldwide for his social work and services done to mankind. Instead it is based on its quality and capability. In other words, a person can be called truly handsome when he is attractive in his character. Read More... आप किसी को बहुत सुंदर लग सकते हैं और अपने व्यक्तित्व से दूसरों को प्रभावित कर सकते हैं। लेकिन जब आपको पता चलता है कि उसके चरित्र में खामियां हैं तो उसकी पहली छाप मिट जाती हैं। उसके चरित्र के कारण, आप उससे नफरत कर सक

  Man is the best creature of God on earth, but a lazy person is a burden on himself. A person's real wealth is hard work and no one can succeed without it. Diligence is the key to success. Some people overestimate their luck when success comes in a chance, which lasts only a short time because only hard work can bring lasting success.    This is the tendency of a person who is determined firmly that under any circumstances he will work hard and will not stop before achieving the goal. Read More... मनुष्य   पृथ्वी पर ईश्वर का सर्वश्रेष्ठ प्राणी है, लेकिन एक आलसी व्यक्ति स्वयं पर बोझ है। किसी व्यक्ति की वास्तविक संपत्ति कड़ी मेहनत है और कोई भी इसके बिना सफल नहीं हो सकता है। कुछ लोग अपनी किस्मत को अधिक महत्व देते हैं, जब एक मौका में सफलता मिलती है, जो केवल कम समय तक रहती है क्योंकि केवल कड़ी मेहनत ही स्थायी सफलता ला सकती है। यह एक ऐसे व्यक्ति की प्रवृत्ति है जो दृढ़ता से निर्धारित होता है कि किसी भी परिस्थिति में वह कड़ी मेहनत करेगा और लक्ष्य हासिल करने से पहले नहीं रुकेगा।

     Education was a different form in our past. At that time attention was given to physical education, moral education, intellectual education etc. along with alphabetic knowledge. “ Nalanda” was the oldest university-system of education in the world.      In this pattern along with language, sharing of information, gathering of food and providing shelter. It was being also taught to acquire cultural values, religious rites or practices. To survive, people developed skills that developed in cultural and educational patterns.       Modern education includes writing, imagination, and thinking skills. It is an evolution of traditional education. Now it has become an industry. Besides these it has separate faculties for various vocational education. Read More...      हमारे अतीत में शिक्षा एक अलग रूप थी। शिक्षा के लिए गुरुकुल या आश्रमों में   जाना पड़ता था। उस समय वर्णनात्मक ज्ञान के साथ शारीरिक शिक्षा, नैतिक शिक्षा, बौद्धिक शिक्षा आदि पर ध्यान दिया जाता था। "नालंदा" दुनिया म

     Hard work, in which a person resolves to achieve a desired result. He decides to achieve some goal, plans according to the goal, then works on it regularly and it is generally seen that people achieve their desired results.      When I was entered to class 7, I had seen three lines written on the walls of the classroom. That are “Determination”, “Strong intention” and “Hard Work” . I was very impressed with these lines. I used to read this many times a day. Though it was memorized to me but I had a habit to read this without fail.      I had not only read this I had acted upon this. I had applied this in my life. As a result it not only helped me in my education but also in other fields of life. In first three months I had become the first in my class besides working for my home. Read More...      कड़ी मेहनत, जिसमें एक व्यक्ति एक वांछित परिणाम प्राप्त करने का संकल्प करता है। वह कुछ लक्ष्य प्राप्त करने का निर्णय लेता है, लक्ष्य के नुसार योजना बनाता है, फिर नियमित रूप से उस प

     Today most of us live alone in this run-of-the-mill life due to the necessity of our employment. We have to depend on hotels / restaurants for food. Therefore, it becomes necessary to know some basic culinary skills for our good health.     Cooking skills can help people meet nutritional guidelines in their daily nutritional supplies. This helps people to make healthy food choices. We should encourage children to develop cooking skills.    Food has held a high importance in regards to our lives. If you know how to cook, you don't have to starve. You can have your meal according to your time and interest and will not have to depend on others. Read More...      आज हममें से अधिकांश लोग अपने रोजगार की आवश्यकता के कारण आज के इस भागदौड़ भरे जीवन में अकेले रहते हैं। हमें भोजन के लिए होटल / रेस्तरां पर निर्भर रहना पड़ता हैं । इसलिए, हमारे अच्छे स्वास्थ्य के लिए कुछ बुनियादी पाक कौशल को जानना आवश्यक हो जाता है।      खाना पकाने का कौशल लोगों को अपने दैनिक पोषण आपूर्ति में पोषण संबंधी द

     Gradually, people's ideas changed, they progressed and developed. Simply, people's thoughts, attitudes changed, when it changed the situation changed and when the situation changed people changed.     Therefore, all these changes happened due to the views of some people. He thought differently. And, those ideas revolutionized our lives. I remember that the brotherhood that people had in the 1970s is not seen among the brothers.      Previously people used to enjoy eating with sharing, but today they enjoy showing others and seeing others hungry. Time is constantly moving, which has not stopped till today. We cannot be saved by blaming it on time. It is the greed inside us that has made us forget our moral values ​​and social duties. Read More...      धीरे-धीरे, लोगों के विचार बदल गए, उन्होंने प्रगति की और विकास किया। बस, लोगों के विचार, दृष्टिकोण बदल गए, जब यह बदल गया तो स्थिति बदल गई और जब स्थिति बदल गई तो लोग बदल गए।      इसलिए, ये सारे बदलाव कुछ लोगों के विचारों के का

     My boss is always on my back, as well as customers are making very upset. Some ask such questions that the brain collapsed only after listening. It was 9 pm when I entered home. Today I was mentally tired.  I heard a voice "Come back, why it was delayed?" This was my wife. I could not answer and went to my room and lay in bed. Today I was feeling very restless. My wife entered the room with a cup of tea in her hand and asked were you asleep?  I got up, had a cup of tea and entered the washroom to take a shower. "Everyone has finished their meal" My wife shouted at the dining table to have dinner.      I was feeling a little fresh now. I was not ready to have dinner but still ate a little. When I came to my bedroom, every vision was in front of my eyes one by one. Read More...      मेरा बॉस हमेशा मेरी पीठ पर रहता है, साथ ही  ग्राहक भी बहुत परेशान करतें  हैं। कुछ तो ऐसे सवाल करते हैं की सुनकर ही मस्तिष्क जवाब दे देता हैं।  रात के 9 बज रहे थे जब मैंने घर में प्रव

It has been many years since our country became independent, but women have not got the right to live freely till date. The bigger the crimes that happen to women, the less their punishment. No news of any number of incidents, which come, they sit in the house upset by the justice system. The law of the country will change when it changes but we can do our thinking. We stand for the right of every woman to live equally and free from discrimination. Unfortunately, many of the women do not know their rights. Women are still struggling with issues such as safety, mobility and economic independence. Our male dominated society gives decision making power to men. Women are often denied, from studying or working, to making economic decisions, to good use of earnings. In fact, most female feticide in the world occurs in India. Read More...      हमारे देश को आज़ाद हुए कितने वर्ष हो गए लेकिन महिलाओं को आज़ादी से जीने का हक़ आज तक नहीं मिला। महिलाओं के साथ होने वाले गुनाह जितने बड़े होते हैं, उनकी सज